He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man by Ian Kerner (PDF)

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Transform Yourself from “Passion Victim” to Passionista!In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual “ill-cliteracy,” and women everywhere benefited from his “viva la vulva” philosophy of female pleasure. Now, in Passionista, it’s time to learn all about what turns men onand makes them stay on. In this point-by-point, “blow-by-blow” guide, Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality, unlocks the secrets of satisfaction, and offers knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about. His advice is the closest you’ll ever come to waking up in a guy’s skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick.Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest so popular, Passionista is the empowered woman’s guide to enjoying sex to the fullest

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Editorial Reviews: Review “In Passionista, his pleasure is all yours!” — Tracey Cox, bestselling author of SuperSex“Passionista satisfies the reader with tasty morsels of sexual enlightenment, nibble by nibble, bite by bite.” — Lou Paget, best-selling author of How to Be a Great Lover and The Great Lover Playbook From the Back Cover The companion book to Ian Kerner’s smash success She Comes First, He Comes Next offers women his sometimes radical, always expert advice on everything from the nature of male desire to sex-techniques that workWhile women everywhere benefited from Ian Kerner’s sexual philosophy of female pleasure in She Comes First, now it’s time to learn all about what turns men on and makes them stay on. In He Comes Next, Kerner covers every angle of male sexuality, illuminates the most common sex-life ruts, and offers practical, knowledgeable answers to women’s most frequently asked questions. In his role as a sex therapist, Kerner has spoken with countless men not only about the best sex they ever had, but also perhaps more important about the best sex they never had — experiences they always desired and fantasized about, but were afraid to share with their partners. In the spirit of “full exposure,” He Comes Next is the closest you’ll ever come to waking up in a guy’s skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick.Sexual pleasure goes beyond tips and tactics, however. Our sexual identities — and the expression, gratification, and growth of these identities — is fundamental to the success of our intimate relationships. With step-by-step and — yes — blow-by-blow detail, Kerner provides a clear, concise, achievable vision of sexual pleasure, one in which each technique forwards the action and where the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest — You’re Not That Into Him Either so popular, He Comes Next is the thinking woman’s guide to enjoying sex to the fullest and ensuring that he does the same. About the Author Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons. Read more

Reviews from Amazon users which were colected at the time this book was published on the website:

⭐Yes, I know my title is a little juvenile but this book is just awesome. It’s not just a book filled with a bunch of crazy tricks (although there are some are pretty fun ideas XD). It’s full of digestible information to ignite the spark between you and your man again…outside the bedroom!! It pretty much teaches you how to view your significant other in a new exciting light again just like you were when you first met:)

⭐Not, perfect practice makes perfect. This book is different in thought and approach to his last, She Comes First. This book is primarily written for women, on how to make love and build desire in their man. This book is long on philosophy and a thinking approach, and short on techniques. I think that was intended. To build great sex, it is more a mental game than a physical one, and this book explains to women the mental game of men, so they know how to play. To often, we approach our partner the way we would like to be approached, and will not likely work out for most people. This book arms you for understanding to be the best you, you can be in bed and in the set up before.It is not lacking in technique. The last 3 chapters give you ideas and baslines on how to handled the different levels of arousal, signs to look for, ways to please. It encourages women to find their inner tigress and take charge, and drive the activites to make love to their partners better.You can sum it up in, keep it open, keep it honest, keep it fresh. Which both says a lot, and nothing. Unless your a Tao master, there is benefit in this book for you.

⭐I got “she comes first” for my husband 3 weeks before I bought this book. She comes first is one of the best book purchases ever. Based on that, I bought this book. It has some good info on the psychological side of a man’s sexual needs, and a few tips and techniques for women. It was a little dry, and I felt the focus kept coming back to me, the woman. It is a very nonjudgmental book, and is very reassuring. It does not expect some amazing bedroom act, rather it shows you how your own emotional tendencies are found in him, and how to satisfy them. It is a simple book with simple techniques that are extremely effective. I WOULD RECCOMEND THIS BOOK, AND IT’S EVEN BETTER IF YOU GET “SHE COMES FIRST” WITH IT. My husband has turned into a different person since this book, and I am loving it.

⭐I read She Comes First by the same author before I read this one which was just as educational for me as it is for a man. That being said, He Comes Next was quite a learning experience! While I am good at “it”, there’s always room for improvement in whatever you’re doing and reading this book cemented that belief. It helped me understand how a man thinks and why and how he feels (not so different from us ladies) about sensitive issues. I expected the book to be primarily about learning to give a better oral sex like She Comes First is, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that there was much more to it than that. I did, however, appreciate the education I got about oral sex. I certainly hope to satisfy my partner better now-emotionally and physically.

⭐I bought this book as a pair with ‘She Comes First’. As a guy, I think this book will provide women with a great understanding of the male view of arousal and pleasure that most guys probably wouldn’t verbalize but will definitely appreciate them knowing. The author provides great, detailed techniques, activities and ideas to for extending and enhancing his pleasure (and yours) throughout love making. The only reason I didn’t rate it a 5 was that it didn’t seem provide as detailed tips/techniques for oral s*x as She Comes First; so if your looking for a book that really details techniques to please your guy in that area you might try a different book.

⭐I bought this book because other reviews stated that it was well written. I mainly bought it for fun (fairly clean) reading. However, it was incredibly insightful. I honestly didn’t think I would learn anything, and thought this might be similar to an article featured in Cosmo Magazine, etc. Much to my surprise, I actually did learn a few things about men, and why they are, the way they are. (Or why their body reacts in certain ways.)Overall, very insightful, clean, well written. If you want a good laugh, an interesting read, and are willing to put down your guard and learn a few things about men you never realized you didn’t know, then this is the book for you !!

⭐Really enjoyed authors other book called She Comes First. But being a straight girl felt I should give this a try. Nothing like the first book. Majority of the book is just anecdotes about girls experience in keeping the spice alive in their sex life. Great story for magazines, not for a book that can only be bought as hard back. And is that supposed to be some kind of joke? Only offered hard cover?Anyway, I don’t need a book to tell me guys like being sent nudes and watching their significant other masturbate. Not worth buying, but do read his other book. It’s quite empowering.

⭐Oh my – such a disappointment I actually wrote Dr. Kerner and requested my money back. I don’t know if I reviewed “She Comes First”, his other book he wrote prior to this one. That book? 5 Stars. This book? 0 Stars, but that wasn’t an option. This book was boring, banal, and had no new information to offer me. If you want the technical details about how to sexually please a man, there are MUCH better books on the market. This book will offer you about 5 minutes of warmth if you throw it in the fire – that’s about all it is good for. If you want to understand the male psyche, so many more books with real information. This book just reiterates what other authors have already said – WAY too many quotes throughout the book. Maybe the male psyche is so pathetically shallow that there is a finite amount of information out there and it has been expended – but I don’t believe that. I think the male population is as complex as the females, but in opposite areas – which is why men and women come together so well. (this is NOT a LGBT bash – just being simplified here). The only reason I finished the book is a weird sense of obligation and desperate hope it would get better.

⭐Nowhere near the quality of ‘She Comes First’. Not very educational or helpful. Though good to have/read if you intend on trying to get your partner to read ‘She Comes First’.

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